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#36248 - 01/21/03 03:51 PM GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
bec Offline
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Registered: 10/03/02
Posts: 187
Loc: chicagoland area
hello men:

i finally got around to reading an article on this site that was recommended to me some time ago. it was written by Ken Singer, one of the site's leaders/founders, i believe. check it out if you too feel you suffer from doing the same old useless things to try and cope with your pain like i do.

here it is:
http://www.malesurvivor.org/articles/singer2.htm.

it is really great and includes an exercise that we can use to help us make healthier choices in our recovery. good luck men and God bless. sincerely,

bec \:\)


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#36249 - 01/21/03 03:57 PM Re: GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
Mark S Offline
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Registered: 08/25/02
Posts: 130
Loc: England
Bec.

I tried the link but got an error message, any thoughts as to why.

Mark


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#36250 - 01/21/03 04:05 PM Re: GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
bec Offline
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Registered: 10/03/02
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hello men:

i am no techno expert. i believe the mistake i made in listing the site page was the period at the end. try this:

http://www.malesurvivor.org/articles/singer2.htm

ok, i think that will do it.


bec


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#36251 - 01/21/03 06:07 PM Re: GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
Mark S Offline
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Thanks Bec.

Worked a treat. I will save it and read it when I'm not so busy. I hope Ken doesn't mind.

Mark


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#36252 - 01/21/03 06:21 PM Re: GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
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Registered: 06/05/02
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Loc: Southern California
thanks for the timely link...

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#36253 - 01/22/03 12:01 AM Re: GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
Wuamei Offline
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Registered: 08/19/02
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Loc: The left turn I should have ta...
I've read this article over a few times and find it a simple, practical reference for a lot of things I deal with day to day.

Victor

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"I can't stand pain. It hurts me."
--Daffy Duck

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#36254 - 01/22/03 05:52 AM Re: GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
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Registered: 05/30/02
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Loc: St Paul MN
Thanks Bec This is just what my wifwe and I where talking about today. It seems I have slipped a bit in my recovery and this should help me get back on track. Muldoon

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#36255 - 01/27/03 11:44 PM Re: GREAT ARTICLE: self-defeating behaviors
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Registered: 08/10/02
Posts: 695
Thanks guys. This is an affirmation that where I am at is just where I am at. I already am an active participant in this self destructiveness. But you, we, all say it's real, and we are not alone. Thank you.


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