people say wounds heal over time
it gets better eventually
i dont see how really
There are things that can be done to bring definite healing.
Talk things out to a T (therapist) or trusted, competent person. It's not just talk. When you talk it out, it gets it out of your subconscious mind where it can be healed.
Read books on healing from abuse, like those of Singer or Lew.
Be active in MS (here) and express your hurts and see what others recommend. Chat and discussion board.
There are some special techniques which work: EMDR
Hypnotherapy for abuse at a very young age or other reason.
Some people may need a little medication.