These are situations where and when dealing with the law is a dice-roll. I've now dealt with an "enlightened" judge who had his head so far up his ___ regarding CSA that he ought to be sent to live on the moon.

Law enforcement is at a minimum as retarded regarding CSA. When family has opposing claims and testimony, the law men default to no-action.

I Agree with Robbie... same thing over here.

KT: Keep documenting every thing. Would any or all of the therapists write a statement with their findings? This way you could bring all of your documents to the authorities. It is important to show a history of complaints.

Didi

I haven't yet found an attorney who can help me with the legal issues regarding PROTECTing my sons. I doubt that any law for preventing CSA exists. They told me to show them evidences. Hello!!! Are you telling me to wait and watch for the grandma to further abuse them so that I can have the damn evidences to go to court? What is all the prevention meant for? I called childhelp, narr, d2l, stopitnow, ect ect and the answers were yeh, that should be a huge concern, you should find an attorney to help you with the specifics. The irony is that they don't even have any referrals for any attorneys specialized in CSA, not even the GA's office. For the therapists, the evidences are already there: how she has CSAed her own two sons and how she has started grooming my two sons. They reported to DFCS, and yes the agency has children that have already been CSAed to help with. But my kids just need to wait till more severe abuses to happen to them with some physical marks to show in court, right?

That's why I updated my initial posts that YOU, Rob, Didi, TJ, Gary, Steve, Anthony, Dewey, Napoleon, Morningstar, H4H, Katie (sorry that if I missed anyone) and many others whose posts have supported and helped me more than anyone in the legal system whose sole duty is to protect innocent people especially children. Also another factor that has helped a lot are our friends. They talked to my H and his mother that no matter how she brought up my H and his brother, she just can't do this to my sons. Believe me, I didn't think about making waves. If she continues the way to my boys' devastation, I'm going to make AVALANCHE. And thanks Didi, yes I'm documenting.

It's still many years ahead, but I hope one day that I can come here and tell you all that my sons have grown up safely, thanks for your most generous gifts in life! They may be just two little boys, but for them it's a life that you've helped to make a huge difference. It takes a village to raise a child, and it does.

I hope that I can be any help to anyone here as well. I've never met you, but you're my dearest friends in my heart!

KT