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#359044 - 04/08/11 07:40 PM Life's easily destroyed
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Edited by user2007 (04/23/11 11:46 PM)
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#359046 - 04/08/11 08:10 PM Re: Life's easily destroyed [Re: user2007]
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There's nothing to say that makes any sence of all the evil that walks this planet. At least we know some people who will never shread a life.

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#359049 - 04/08/11 09:21 PM Re: Life's easily destroyed [Re: user2007]
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I watched TV for a while this evening. That certain chef program came on. I can't mention his name. I was able to endure watching it longer tonight than I ever have before. He even looks like my perp. The one who tortured me when I was 12. I watched him using the same techniques with others in the kitchen as my perp used with me. He comes in as the strong man, the man who knows it all. He destroys the confidence of the boy by saying degrading things and by slight of hand and innuendo. A short time later some of them are in tears. He has the urge to dominate, to control, to degrade, to destroy, to rape. He is skilled in his craft. I think he knows exactly what he's doing. He delights in destruction.

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#359181 - 04/09/11 09:09 PM Re: Life's easily destroyed [Re: pufferfish]
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Edited by user2007 (04/23/11 11:46 PM)
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#359197 - 04/09/11 11:23 PM Re: Life's easily destroyed [Re: user2007]
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Its human nature. We, as a race, are fkg evil. Some of us chose to NOT practice any evil.

I remember thinking and crying over that discovery...the moment I realized that there are bad people in this world. I was 7 and pulling my fkg sled home!!! I had no freakin clue people could be anywhere near that sort of evil. I did not want to be here after that. I still don't.



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#359201 - 04/09/11 11:36 PM Re: Life's easily destroyed [Re: Still]
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I agree Robbie, that is the meaning. People have the capability of doing evil.

It seems that we are born in innocence. But we have the ability to choose to do good or evil. But the evil is almost like a Tsunami in our path. We all seem to do something bad at some time in our life. Therefore we need God's help to rescue us from our own tendencies. This is the meaning of Christian redemption. We have to be redeemed from our tendency to do bad.

It is the shattering of our innocence that is part of the trauma we experience when abuse robs us of that quality. We feel that something has been taken from us. We usually don't know what it is that has left.

The tragic thing about abusers is that they seem to want to rob the innocence from the young. That is a great evil.

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#359207 - 04/09/11 11:52 PM Re: Life's easily destroyed [Re: pufferfish]
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I absolutely hate when I see young guys and children realizing the nature of humans. Some of us JM, like you, like everyone here, find out first-hand at an early age. Then things like Rio confirm the extent of the evil. It frustrates me and saddens me that I can't shield the young from the evil OR the realization...no one can.

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