"I was thinking about it but I actually prefer to pretend that it never happened. It is easier for me that way. "
While you may not need to confront...pretending it never happened is definitly not going to help you heal..IMHO
And if you are here, your not forgetting it, it will only keep getting worse unless you contnue to work on it...but kudos for finding us and making the first steps.
And I hope you are seeing a T, or considering it...Its not a DIY project.
I am no longer willing to hold onto "the" perps shame, at my expense.
Hedge Hog and Chicken Dad.