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#355327 - 03/02/11 10:07 AM I thought it was over
bluejay Offline


Registered: 02/23/11
Posts: 51

I'm not ready to say much about it but, in general, once I turned 12 it was over. At least I thought it was over. But when I was 20 years old it happened once again. From out of no where after 8 years of near silence and forgotten memories, he did it again. Same person, same place, one last time. I don't question it. But maybe I should.


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#355328 - 03/02/11 10:34 AM Re: I thought it was over [Re: bluejay]
prisonerID Offline
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Registered: 02/17/08
Posts: 1247
Loc: Oklahoma
bluejay,

Talk about what you want when you feel ready to do so. We are here to listen at any time.

I am so sorry for any time you were hurt - as a child or as an adult.


Daryl

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#355330 - 03/02/11 11:05 AM Re: I thought it was over [Re: prisonerID]
bluejay Offline


Registered: 02/23/11
Posts: 51
Thankyou


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#355344 - 03/02/11 12:56 PM Re: I thought it was over [Re: bluejay]
RecoveryReady1 Offline


Registered: 12/05/10
Posts: 433
That I think is the hardest part of all this....is recognizing that once abused...we are vulnerable to many ills until we deal with it...until we heal....
The attempt to be strong is what kills us...
Be Well,
Steve


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#355354 - 03/02/11 02:42 PM Re: I thought it was over [Re: RecoveryReady1]
1.healing Offline
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Registered: 09/10/10
Posts: 261
Loc: NW Ohio
bluejay,

Sorry that abuse happened to you, it sure is a tough break and undeserved. The betrayal of a family member is something many here also know, you're no longer alone with this. You'll be understood here, there's a lot of compassion and healing at your fingertips now. Go easy on yourself, no reason to hurry, you're right where you need to be at this time.

Gary

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"It's never too late to be what you might have been."

George Elliot

"You cannot find peace by avoiding life."

Virginia Woolf

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#355411 - 03/03/11 08:01 AM Re: I thought it was over [Re: 1.healing]
bluejay Offline


Registered: 02/23/11
Posts: 51
Thanks again guys. It certainly helps to express myself to those who have an understanding of the situation, feelings and emotions behind it.


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#355419 - 03/03/11 09:24 AM Re: I thought it was over [Re: bluejay]
1.healing Offline
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Registered: 09/10/10
Posts: 261
Loc: NW Ohio
Hey bluejay,

Wishing you a "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!" I hope this day begins a new year of healing and the start of many good things for you.

All the best,

Gary



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#355424 - 03/03/11 10:06 AM Re: I thought it was over [Re: 1.healing]
bluejay Offline


Registered: 02/23/11
Posts: 51
Thanks Gary!


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#355428 - 03/03/11 10:19 AM Re: I thought it was over [Re: bluejay]
Avery46 Offline


Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
Bluejay,

Ahhh...two things here. First Happy Birthday!!! You deserve the best ever.

Second, You are NOT at fault for the happenings as a child and the things learned including those which repeated themselves.

It is good to know the patterns of abuse.

Donnie

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