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#352306 - 01/29/11 02:00 PM a shift has happened
Avery46 Offline

Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
Thursday Night, I "completed" a ritual/ceremony of ridding myself of the "affects" of the main perp in my life. I am a much more content person today. I am more than ok to be alone and just with me.

There as a shift in the focus of my life that was a shift inwards - inwards in being ok with me and me being ok with the world. Those of you who have known me since the early 2009 - especially in 2010, know that I was NOT ok with me or the world to the point of being passive/aggressive. I know and BELIEVE I am a good guy.

On News Years day, I hugged a great friend - Jamie. For the 1st time in 47 years, I gave AND received the genuine LOVE that was in that hug and between the spirit that exists in the world.

I no longer "react" negatively. I no longer "assume" anything about others or "situations". I no longer believe I am worthless.

Truly, compassion, Joy and peace are mine.


aka DJsport

#352307 - 01/29/11 02:06 PM Re: a shift has happened [Re: Avery46]
Magellan Offline

Registered: 12/31/10
Posts: 1402
Loc: California
This makes me happy.

It's a heroes journey, and you are the hero.

Loving Kindness Meditation will dramatically improve your spirits; give it a try for just 3 days:

#352311 - 01/29/11 03:39 PM Re: a shift has happened [Re: Avery46]
charty Offline

Registered: 12/23/10
Posts: 44
Loc: Wisconsin
Wow, this is awesome.




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