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#352152 - 01/27/11 07:25 PM Learning to call it what it is.
RecoveryReady1 Offline

Registered: 12/05/10
Posts: 433
It takes a lot of energy and reflection to aknowlege the feelings and thoughts as they come and to say to myself..I feel this way because of the abuse...plain and simple....not complicated as I always want to make it....I always want to find some way that I must be resposible at some level....some of what they said must have been true...Then it starts to get complicated....but it's not was abusive and that is the reason I feel this way today.....I want to come up with a million reasons and then a million solutions...all bullshit....One Reason and one solution...
Reason/ abuse....solution/acknowlege the truth

#352175 - 01/28/11 08:26 AM Re: Learning to call it what it is. [Re: RecoveryReady1]
r.m. Offline

Registered: 01/18/11
Posts: 106

You're healing in front of our eyes, friend.

You're helping me in the process.

Great work!

Thank you!


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