For me, it was about figuring out who I am as opposed to what the SA made me. Dealing with all this stuff helps me weed out what I do because I was SA from what I do because that's who I am. Does that make sense? So in the end, maybe I will be somebody who cries, laughs, is afraid, loves--but whatever I do, it will be because that's who I truly am. Not because I'm still reacting to SA that happened long ago.
"This search for the truth--it's not for the faint of heart."--Goren on 'Law & Order: CI'
"The former things will not be called to mind, neither will they come up into the heart."--Isaiah 65:17