You have very little understanding of anything revolving around being a male survivor..or how to support one.
Why are you here?
And let me take it a step further...I think you are specifically HURTING and ABUSING your friend for your gain.
This survivor has no ability to stand up to you, and you could care less about his feelings on certai matters that many of us hold very sacred...Just because hes compelled to play your "games", it seems from this line...
"I have also told him I told one of my best buds. He emailed and said, "You wouldn't!!, or "you didn't!", or something. I don't remember exactly."
tells me you are a sick woman.
49 yo female, divorce lawyer, who likes control at others expense, and feminizing men, one of whom was abused as a child, and your ok with helping him relive some abusive moments in his life.
Your a real catch I wonder why he hasn't commited to you.
I REALLY DISLIKE YOU AND EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU AND IM NOT AFRAID TO TELL YOU SO.