Part of me says just walk away, but I am not ready to do that.
OK...That takes care of asking you Rob Question #1Let me ask you this:
Have you ordered or obtained any books to educated yourself in a flash. The books in our MS library can save you buckets of time discovering the basics and empower you with expert knowledge (as books tend to do)?
I suggest Mike Lew's book "Victims no Longer" for him (ASAP) and "BrokenBoys - Mending Men," (by Grubman-Black) for YOU. Both are available through this site.
I have never found or heard a therapist in my area of the world whom suggests great books like these. They do SO much good for the survivor and his F&F.