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#344226 - 11/05/10 04:59 PM anyone else?
CruxFidelis Offline


Registered: 06/16/10
Posts: 486
Loc: NJ
Hey everyone,

Are there any other guys here who were married at the time of their sexual abuse?

just wondering.

- Pete

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“If a man wishes to be sure of the road he treads on, he must close his eyes and walk in the dark.”

- Saint John of the Cross

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#344296 - 11/06/10 07:22 AM Re: anyone else? [Re: CruxFidelis]
Hex Offline


Registered: 10/17/09
Posts: 21
Loc: Canada
Getting married is what helped give me the strength to stop my abuse. He came to the wedding, but I (with assistance) was able to get out before having an incidence in the weeks afterward.

While that has put strain on my relationship, it makes each anniversary even sweeter to know that it's another year free of abuse as well.


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#344557 - 11/09/10 08:58 AM Re: anyone else? [Re: Hex]
CruxFidelis Offline


Registered: 06/16/10
Posts: 486
Loc: NJ
I am so glad that getting married brought so much healing into your life.

For me being married right now is bringing a lot of healing and also a lot of hardship because my wife is also coping with her abuse.

_________________________
“If a man wishes to be sure of the road he treads on, he must close his eyes and walk in the dark.”

- Saint John of the Cross

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#344622 - 11/09/10 06:43 PM Re: anyone else? [Re: CruxFidelis]
michael Joseph Offline
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Registered: 03/11/01
Posts: 2719
Loc: Virginia
I was married when I was raped. She did not really know how to help, and at one point she cheated on me. Finally she left.
Which really hurt. Then I married again to someone who treated me really bad the last few years and we were also divorced.

Now I am in a good relationship.

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#344782 - 11/11/10 02:10 AM Re: anyone else? [Re: michael Joseph]
Scotty123 Offline


Registered: 12/07/09
Posts: 51
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Edited by Scotty123 (01/08/13 05:05 AM)

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