You might look at the many comments on the story on Oprah.com. There are a lot of women there who have abused men in their lives. They might benefit from hearing about this forum and what you have to say. And perhaps make some good new people to talk to here.
Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer
And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you