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#340484 - 09/19/10 07:10 PM Is it me?
whatthe Offline


Registered: 02/06/09
Posts: 8
Hi,
lately my husband has been snapping at me or getting annoyed over what i consider to be very trivial things, does this happen to you or is it me, am i doing & saying the wrong things, i find it confusing, what if i am blaming too much on his behaviour/abuse & i am just difficult to live with in my own right??
i can't find where it all begins & ends anymore...


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#340515 - 09/20/10 09:56 AM Re: Is it me? [Re: whatthe]
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Registered: 02/17/10
Posts: 1007
Loc: WA USA
Hello whatthe,

I know I can't answer your spacific questions it would be out of line for me to try. What I would like to share with you is that for many years the way I displayed my frustration over the rape was getting angry at the little irritations of life. The big stuff I handled very well but it was the little plumbing problems gone wrong or running out of nails before project was done that would send me into orbit. For me once I learned that it was not the running out of nails but the feeling of being out of control that was driving this fall-apart behavior I was able to get a better control of it. I don't know if this helps it is only your post took me back to those times and places. Earlybird

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