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#340375 - 09/17/10 06:49 PM Re: Unpaid Time Off Work - May Resign [Re: Barkabus]
BuryingJack Offline
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Registered: 04/02/10
Posts: 101
Mike -

I don't know you or what you've been through but I hope you take what happened today in context. It sounds like you have good people to talk with about it - but I just want to reinforce that your recovery is priority #1. I've done a lot of things subconsciously in my life to limit myself professionally. I haven't really known that until recently. Being "black listed" at work because of my attitude - in essence, fired, was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm convinced I was the one who was making it happen latently so that I could handle my past in the most effective way possible for my wife and I. I hope you're not being tough on yourself for what happened - be kind to yourself. If you have time, read Max Erhman's "Desiterata" - it's a good read and applicable if you have a chance.

My best to you

Chris
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#340376 - 09/17/10 06:52 PM Re: Unpaid Time Off Work - May Resign [Re: Barkabus]
1.healing Offline
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Registered: 09/10/10
Posts: 261
Loc: NW Ohio
oh, Mike I'm so sorry this happened to you, I gasped when I read this and felt like I'd been punched in the stomach, can't imagine how you're feeling. I'll pray and hope that in it's an opportunity for you to find work that's a better fit for what you need so you can continue healing with much less stress. Thinking about you and wishing you better things.

Gary

P.S. For Andy and JS too.

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"You cannot find peace by avoiding life."

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#340389 - 09/18/10 01:06 AM Re: Unpaid Time Off Work - May Resign [Re: 1.healing]
sono Offline
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Registered: 07/19/09
Posts: 1069
Mike,

I sure hope things work out for you. I've gotta admit, I'm kinda concerned about this development, in light of your comment in the opening of this thread, that you're about to crack. I hope you can give us an update about how you're doing after it all settles in.

You know all the platitudes about doors closing and others opening, but I really have found that to be true...just keep your eyes wide open when you're ready.

Thinking of you and sending out good vibes.

Kevin

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#340415 - 09/18/10 02:15 PM Re: Unpaid Time Off Work - May Resign [Re: sono]
Barkabus Offline
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Registered: 05/09/08
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Thank you guys for your kind words and encouragement. I'm feeling pretty good. Actually, I'm feeling a lot better than I did when I was laid off two years ago last July. I am thankful I don't have to go back to that job.

Kevin, by "Iím about to crack" I was referring to the stress load I was under. It was becoming unbearable. I was ambiguous regarding what I meant. I apologize for that. Iím doing good at this point.


Thanks for caring!

Mike

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