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#337458 - 08/02/10 03:05 PM Its time to move on
james 1959 Offline


Registered: 02/17/10
Posts: 283
I came to this site about 7 months ago a broken man during the last 7 months Iíve worked hard at my recovery form csa and I have progress well during that time I never thought I would feel the way I feel today.

I feel a lot stronger now and that I Iím now able to get on with my life a new man without all the torture, guilt pain and grief from csa.

I am very grateful to all at MS who have helped me to date on my journey of recovery.

So where do I go to now I donít know for no one knows what the future will bring.

So now Iíve decided I am now going to get on with the rest of my life with the people who matter the most to me my wife and family who I love very much.

But that does not mean to say Iím leaving male survivors theres no right and wrongs in the recovery process, if I want to log on I will and if I donít I donít but I wonít be getting myself in a twist should I go or should I stay I been through enough in my life so itís time now to do a bit of living.

We canít change the past but we can shape our own future

Many Thanks

James Iím a Survivor

Thereís light and a life at the end of the tunnel from csa Iím living proof of that in my life to day.




Edited by james 1959 (08/02/10 03:10 PM)
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#337463 - 08/02/10 03:58 PM Re: Its time to move on [Re: james 1959]
caesar14 Offline
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Registered: 04/13/10
Posts: 69
Loc: Gamewell, North Carolina
Dearest Brother James,

I am so proud of you for the hard work you put in. I am also thankful for those times when we spoke together and you made me feel better about myself. I hope with all sincerity that you live long and prosper with a newfound faith in yourself. Please do keep in touch once in a while and remember we are here for you if we are needed.

Gary

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"The innocence you spoiled has found a way to live"
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#337465 - 08/02/10 04:40 PM Re: Its time to move on [Re: caesar14]
petercorbett Offline
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Registered: 07/27/08
Posts: 2435
Loc: TEXAS
Hi, my brothers,

Well, James, i'm glad that you are a survivor.

I am sure that it took an awful lot of fear & tears, to accomplish your trip from victim to survivor.

I wish you well. You have been a help to me.

Before you go, i would like you to leave with my wish for you.

An, Irish wish for you.

May you always have..A sunbeam to warm you.
Good luck to charm you.
And a sheltering angel, so nothing can harm you.
Laughter to cheer you.
Faithful friends near you.
And whenever you pray,
Heaven to hear you.

Come by and say hello when you can.

Heal well, my brother James, heal well & good luck.

Pete..Irishmoose.

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A very humble alumni of the WOR Dahlonega, GA.
May 15-17 2009, Alta, Sep. 2009. Sequoia, 2010.
Hope Springs, 2010.


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#337540 - 08/03/10 03:14 PM Re: Its time to move on [Re: petercorbett]
ericc Offline
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Registered: 01/04/08
Posts: 1961
James,

Not much to really to add other than all you said above sounds great. Best wishes for everything no matter what path. Glad to hear of the progress. Things really can change once we are able to talk about it.

Eric


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#337960 - 08/09/10 03:59 PM Re: Its time to move on [Re: ericc]
james 1959 Offline


Registered: 02/17/10
Posts: 283
Thanks to everyone for their help and support over the months and im getting along fine


James

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#341549 - 10/06/10 02:55 PM Re: Its time to move on [Re: james 1959]
james 1959 Offline


Registered: 02/17/10
Posts: 283
ive moved on so much further in my recovery, i dnt know my new self the past dsnt hurt me any more and im ready to start living

Thank God for my new life

James

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#341560 - 10/06/10 04:55 PM Re: Its time to move on [Re: james 1959]
kb8715 Offline
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Registered: 07/16/10
Posts: 808
Awesome James!!!! Be well.

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