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#336432 - 07/20/10 05:56 PM Re: dumbass drunk [Re: Zak]
Mountainous Buck Offline
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Registered: 12/15/09
Posts: 1626
Loc: Minnesota
Way to go!

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It matters where you go" Frank Turner

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#336447 - 07/21/10 03:42 AM Re: dumbass drunk [Re: Mountainous Buck]
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Registered: 02/13/10
Posts: 491
Loc: AZ, U.S.A.
My brother Zak,

I see from your replies to this topic thus far that you have a lot of friends here at MS. Some have even called you "brother".

I hope this helps you to understand what a good man and likeable guy you truly are, buddy. You know I see you that way.

I told you in chat that I can't make the decision regarding your father for you, bro - you have to make it yourself. And you did. After listening to all of our advice, you decided what you could live with and not live with. I'm sure everyone here is very proud of you for making such a hard decision. smile

Your loving brother,

Bobcat

P.S. - By the way, I find it sadly amusing that your father said he takes no blame for how your mother raised you. Who then does deserve blame that you didn't have a father figure while growing up? I'd sure love to hear his response to that.


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#336449 - 07/21/10 06:44 AM Re: dumbass drunk [Re: TheBobcatAgain]
sono Offline
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Registered: 07/19/09
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Originally Posted By: Zak
U know what, and if u know me then u know I never say this... FUCK HIM!



cool...


Kevin

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#336453 - 07/21/10 09:02 AM Re: dumbass drunk [Re: TheBobcatAgain]
Zak Offline


Registered: 06/16/10
Posts: 57
Originally Posted By: TheBobcatAgain
P.S. - By the way, I find it sadly amusing that your father said he takes no blame for how your mother raised you. Who then does deserve blame that you didn't have a father figure while growing up? I'd sure love to hear his response to that.


would love to hear the response to that myself.
i already know he'll keep blaming my mother
but it wasnt her fault, she didnt know what was going on, he left her
young and with a baby, no income. she did the best she could.
course she might have started asking some questions when my physical
and mental health took a nose dive. but she didnt. oh well.
just as i suspected he already called her and bitched her out about
my behavior, so predictable!


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#336457 - 07/21/10 09:20 AM Re: dumbass drunk [Re: Zak]
J1 Offline
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Registered: 04/24/07
Posts: 137
Loc: Missouri
Zak:

we cannot change our parents or anyone else.
it is not fair.
it is confusing.
getting blotto or buzzed happens, just be safe and do not drive, or get hurt.
I say things when drunk that do not always work out well.
I quit drinking a lot, for most situations.
My dad abused me and died young…not sure what I would say to him…I often think writing a letter to him, would be healthy for me..even though there is nowhere to send it..I am convinced he just did not know how to be a dad.
Parents have so many things to balance…no easy solutions.
going to the gym, riding your bike or hitting a punching bag , really are great.
Letting the crap go is really tough.
being angry is part of feeling..so is crying….

today is a fresh day…it will get better….

Jeffrey


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