Had to think hard about this.
I would like to ask my original abuser Chris Denning "why did you tell me that I was very possibly gay?" (otherwise I wouldnt be doing the things I had). That one thing screwed me up for years and occasionally I have to relive it whilst asleep.
As for the rest of them "I would tell them that they are not gay they are paedophiles" because they all give the apperance that they are gay and have no interest in early teens or in Denning case boys as young as ten. They are all liars as well. Denning is currently at large in Slovakia. This article is from 1999. http://www.guardian.co.uk/g2/story/0,3604,297548,00.html
He is possiblby Britains most predatory paedophile and his survivors must now run into thousands now (I've seen him at work).
BTW I'm not a homophobe I endulged too much in Homosexual affairs as a "Rent Boy" for that, especially when I was homeless and short of a drink or two.
"And all that was left was hope"