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#334950 - 06/30/10 08:18 AM To the guys in the chat room
Pattycakes Offline


Registered: 05/23/10
Posts: 109
Loc: Canada
Hello to all the guys in the chat room!
Thanks for making me feel welcome. I'd like to tell you all, old members and new ones, that it is always ok to tell me if you want to stay amongst yourselves.

To the newest members: the chat room is mainly for survivors, though F&F are welcome. But I feel it is important that all of you know and undestand that if it makes you uncomfortable when a girl is there, all you need to do is speak up: it will always be ok.

I think there should be some sort of banner with this rule on the chat... So that F&F like me understand how it works and also for the guys there to be reminded that as well...

Just a thought.

Pattycakes

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#334951 - 06/30/10 08:22 AM Re: To the guys in the chat room [Re: Pattycakes]
michael Joseph Offline
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Registered: 03/11/01
Posts: 2719
Loc: Virginia
Patty I hope you find information from us that helps your bf.

having someone who cares about a survivor in your life is a great thing

what you are doing is really really special, I support you in all that you do in reguards to this

Love always michael joseph

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#334952 - 06/30/10 08:25 AM Re: To the guys in the chat room [Re: michael Joseph]
Pattycakes Offline


Registered: 05/23/10
Posts: 109
Loc: Canada
well, MJ, it's not hard to want to stick around when the guys here are so nice, compassionate, smart and supportive. See you on the beach !

Pattycakes

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#334954 - 06/30/10 08:34 AM Re: To the guys in the chat room [Re: Pattycakes]
Obi Offline
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Registered: 12/28/09
Posts: 1249
Loc: kansas
patty,

who else can i get all geeky with?

your jedi knight protector!! lol...

todd

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#334955 - 06/30/10 09:07 AM Re: To the guys in the chat room [Re: Obi]
Pattycakes Offline


Registered: 05/23/10
Posts: 109
Loc: Canada
OBI : my official body guard. My b/f would be happy to know that you are guarding my virtue ! It's really nice to have you around!

PC

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#335218 - 07/04/10 11:44 AM Re: To the guys in the chat room [Re: Pattycakes]
michael Joseph Offline
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Loc: Virginia
PC do not forget the grandpa of your body guard

not sure if gramps is a good nice for me yet

I will get back with you on this

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#335317 - 07/05/10 08:33 AM Re: To the guys in the chat room [Re: michael Joseph]
Pattycakes Offline


Registered: 05/23/10
Posts: 109
Loc: Canada
LOL see you in chat !

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#335351 - 07/05/10 04:03 PM Re: To the guys in the chat room [Re: Pattycakes]
WalkingSouth Offline
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Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16263
Pattycakes,

It's nice to have you and other F&F users here and interacting with us guys. Certainly we can learn a lot from each other.

Tho it's not practical for us to rewrite the code for the plug-in chatroom software that would include a banner as you suggest, there are a couple of sticky postings conveniently located at the top of the Family & Friends forum that explain the chat and posting guidelines that are specific to F&F site users. Here are the links:

Posting and Chat Guidelines Family & Friends
Chat Use Guidelines

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