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#334859 - 06/29/10 08:09 AM I HURT!
Obi Offline
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Registered: 12/28/09
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THIS IS TO MY FAMILY, MY FRIENDS AND EVERYONE HERE ON MS!


I HURT TOO!!!! I HAVE ISSUES TOO!!! I DON'T LIKE BEING F***ING IGNORED!!

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#334861 - 06/29/10 08:26 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: Obi]
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I'm so sorry...I hope I didn't make you feel ignored...???

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#334862 - 06/29/10 09:04 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: Silly]
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Hey pal!!!! What's up?????

Kevin

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#334863 - 06/29/10 09:05 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: Silly]
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Registered: 06/28/10
Posts: 15
Loc: South Africa
hear you man. take it easy


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#334866 - 06/29/10 09:27 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: jhp]
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Registered: 04/21/10
Posts: 260
its okay to hurt, and its okay to have issues. I didn't know you were feeling ignored. Sorry if I did any of that. Here's to healing well.


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#334867 - 06/29/10 09:28 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: traillius]
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Registered: 11/08/09
Posts: 1558
What happened?

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#334868 - 06/29/10 09:35 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: kidneythis]
Obi Offline
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i don't mind helping my family, my friends and anybody here on ms.. it makes me feel good to be able to help when i can...

BUT GUESS WHAT FOLKS?!?!? I HAVE ISSUES TOO!!!

it would be nice if when i say, AND I SAY IT OFTEN!, this bothers me because... or i hurt because... or i'm conflicted because.... to actually be listened to instead of ignored, the subject getting immediately changed or others see it as cue to interrupt me and talk about their issues instead of trying to help me with mine...

like i said, i don't mind helping others. i enjoy it but i have problems too folks and i NEED HELP TOO!!! it would be nice if that helped was returned..

todd

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#334869 - 06/29/10 09:38 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: Obi]
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it upsets me that i have to make posts like this where i'm screaming to be heard...

i feel like i shouldn't have to do that... especially here on ms...

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#334872 - 06/29/10 09:59 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: Obi]
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Registered: 01/02/10
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If you are screaming to be heard, now you know that you are. Is that all you are looking for?

For me, not being heard is actually about not getting something I hoped for if I was heard. Acknowledgement. Sympathy. Empathy. Communication. Help. Understanding. Validation. Release.

-efm

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#334873 - 06/29/10 10:17 AM Re: I HURT! [Re: Ever-fixed Mark]
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I was thinking more specifically Obi, as in; What was the post you made that got ignored?

I didn't see anything in your recent posts that indicated you were doing anything but helping others so I'm a bit confused as to what you were reaching out about that got ignored.

I certainly relate to feeling and thinking exactly the same thing. Always having to seem able even in the midst of a total breakdown never helped me yet I still do it.



Edited by kidneythis (06/29/10 10:20 AM)
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