It is definitely important not to get tangled up in other peoples business, usually it means you will end up being the one getting all the blame.
Sometimes it is good to stand back when things go crazy, let your friends know you are there, but don't try to "fix" their problems.
You are doing the right thing by taking care of yourself in this- that's important.
"...until lambs become lions"
I love you, little lewis, and i will never leave you. We are the same. You brighten my day, and i will make sure that i brighten yours. Hugs and kisses.