I think views in general would be different if the victim were female, regardless of the sex of the perpetrator. Bottom line is males are expected to stop it from happening and if they don't they either wanted it or deserved it. As someone who was abused at 16 by a guy more than twice my age it is something I struggle with, and often ask myself if I would be constantly questioning my status as a survivor if I were female. JS
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