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#324544 - 03/09/10 01:22 PM .
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#324731 - 03/10/10 09:05 PM . [Re: bardo213]
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#324806 - 03/11/10 03:09 PM . [Re: bardo213]
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#324809 - 03/11/10 04:14 PM Re: wounds [Re: bardo213]
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You've made some perceptive observations and asked some great questions, lynchmob. Thanks for taking the time to share them with us.

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#324937 - 03/12/10 12:22 PM . [Re: Ever-fixed Mark]
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#324938 - 03/12/10 12:30 PM Re: wounds [Re: bardo213]
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Originally Posted By: lynchmob212001
not a problem! I just feel that this nails it to a T in my book for people that have been abused, raped, come from dysfunctional familys etc. We all carry wounds in some way or another psychologically! Some people deal with it better then others some it takes a lifetime to master. Once you can start to heal you will notice change in everything you do. Some guys mention on here some pretty good analogies of the healing journey. Some say its like a road map or some talk about PCs for analogies or for me braveheart lol. I think to resolve a problem you need to go to the root of the problem. Wounds can't heal on there own if there not taken care of properly. Then after you take care of it becomes memory that you don't fight every day anymore and then you finally healed from it.


This is a very powerful and thought provoking topic thanks for sharing. It's given me insight and hope for a better tomorrow. Thank you.

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#325155 - 03/14/10 07:20 AM Re: wounds [Re: Charlie24]
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Hey, lynchmob,

These are great thoughts! I'm learning from them. Any more, my friend?

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#325165 - 03/14/10 09:39 AM Re: wounds [Re: bardo213]
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Originally Posted By: lynchmob212001
wound1   /wund; Older Use and Literary waʊnd/ Show Spelled[woond; Older Use and Literary wound] Show IPA
–noun
1.an injury, usually involving division of tissue or rupture of the integument or mucous membrane, due to external violence or some mechanical agency rather than disease.
2.a similar injury to the tissue of a plant.
3.an injury or hurt to feelings, sensibilities, reputation, etc.
–verb (used with object)
4.to inflict a wound upon; injure; hurt.
–verb (used without object)
5.to inflict a wound.
—Idiom
6.lick one's wounds, to attempt to heal one's injuries or soothe one's hurt feelings after a defeat.

We are hardwired to cope with wounds in a certain way it is in our blood. We learn that programming from our parents and from those before them? so I mean from generation to generation if we are hurt we've learned from those before and those before them. how do you unlearn psychological air that you breath in within your own homes? Sometimes we don't even learn it from them it could be learned from other people we trust or look up too as children so as we grow up to be adults we follow that same path as them. So in essence the best way to change the ways we heal wounds is to change the way we cope with them? or think about them? just something I've been pondering lynchmob



I was watching CSI, and now, you may want to check up on this before taking it as fact, but they said that the word "trauma" comes from the greek for "wound". Just interesting.

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#325831 - 03/21/10 04:48 PM . [Re: king tut]
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