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#324274 - 03/06/10 10:33 PM Breaking the bond
catfish86 Offline

Registered: 10/27/09
Posts: 829
Loc: Ohio
In talking with my pastor about my abuse and asking what resources the church has, he was very nonjudgmental and supportive. He also spent a good bit of time listening and avoided "feel good" easy answers, acknowledging but not afraid of the tough issues we all deal with.

One of his responding insights was that a big problem I face is the concept that sex involves more than physical and emotional coupling but also a spiritual coupling as well. From my own studies of>
God grant me
The Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The Courage to change the things I can,
And the Wisdom to know the difference.

#324291 - 03/06/10 11:52 PM Re: Breaking the bond [Re: catfish86]
pufferfish Offline

Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6875
Loc: USA

That's a very helpfull post. Thankyou.



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