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#195400 - 12/15/07 02:26 PM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: AndyJB2005]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 11/14/06
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Loc: Baltimore, Maryland
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Just went to a meeting at the Men's Center, not a survivor one but another one. Nice place. Had a good meeting and felt really comfortable there.
Survivor one is Thursday at 7pm if anyone wants to come. 33rd and Hennepin.
Free donuts! Woo!! :: laugh :: (at least today there was lol)
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#195514 - 12/16/07 10:49 AM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: AndyJB2005]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 683
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
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Tom,
This sounds good.
BUT... my therapist talked to me about how this trauma still plays out in my life, and how I sometimes retraumatize myself talking about ... it. So, I'm re-evaluating what good comes from talking about stuff. I'm trying to learn to feel some safety and some control of myself.
Perhaps we could just agree to some ground rules so I can avoid really triggering stuff.
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#196174 - 12/21/07 12:57 PM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: LandOfShadow]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 683
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
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Hi guys,
Andrew (AndyJB2005) and I met at the Men's Center group last night! (for Survivors Thursdays 7:30-9:30). We both thought it went really well. It felt good to talk about some of this stuff. It was just the three of us including Hank would "facilitates" the group. He's also a survivor.
So Tom and Jeff, I hope sometime you could join us. It'd be nice to have a bigger group, say 4 or 5 at least. Also, Hank is out of town next Thursday (12/27), but I will host ("facilitate") the group. I actually first went to the Men's Center in 1980, eventually facilitated groups for several years and currently help facilitate the Friday Bi-Men's group. So I hope you are all comfortable with that. Hank will be back the following week I expect.
What do you think?
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Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer Liberté
And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you Freedom
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#196180 - 12/21/07 02:14 PM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: LandOfShadow]
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Moderator MaleSurvivor
Registered: 08/07/04
Posts: 3309
Loc: Northern Wisconsin
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Just as soon as I get a first shift job I'll be joining the group - unless the new job takes me further away from there
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#196205 - 12/21/07 06:29 PM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: TJ jeff]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 11/14/06
Posts: 1236
Loc: Baltimore, Maryland
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Yes, it was a great time! So good to meet you, Allan! Hank too! I hope you guys could hear me OK, I'm such a quiet talker. LOL
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#196210 - 12/21/07 08:12 PM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: AndyJB2005]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 05/30/02
Posts: 1416
Loc: MN
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Guys the Thursday group is out for me because I work afternoons. 4 ,10 hour nights, but I have a 3 day weekend. Would come up on for the Sat group.
Tom
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#206756 - 02/22/08 02:00 PM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: AndyJB2005]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 11/14/06
Posts: 1236
Loc: Baltimore, Maryland
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bump
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#217397 - 04/11/08 04:33 PM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: AndyJB2005]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 683
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
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The Thursday Men's Center group has ended. One person does not make a group.
Just another call for guys or groups in the Twin Cities area...
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#260280 - 11/06/08 09:05 AM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: LandOfShadow]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 683
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
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Just to bump this up, and say that this is now an active good group. PM me if you have any interest. I know of only one other group in a city of 2 million. How pathetic is that?
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Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer Liberté
And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you Freedom
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#260298 - 11/06/08 11:28 AM
Re: Twin Cities Minnesota USA men's support group
[Re: LandOfShadow]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 05/20/08
Posts: 2826
Loc: Denver, CO
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What ever happened to that SIA group that was at that church on Lake St west of Lake of the Isles. I haven't been there in 10 years now though. Maybe try to see if Mic Hunter knows of a group. 10 years ago his office was on University Ave west of Snelling, I believe, back when I was his patient.
Just wondered,
Mark
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