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#3331 - 09/04/05 03:09 PM Re: All Lies...........
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
moved to an independent thread

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#3332 - 09/04/05 10:53 PM Re: All Lies...........
outis Offline
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Registered: 02/27/03
Posts: 2258
Loc: Maryland USA
If she doesn't hurt me exactly like what he did, then I can trust her.

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"Telemachos, your guest is no discredit to you. I wasted no time in stringing the bow, and I did not miss the mark. My strength is yet unbroken…"—The Odyssey, translated by W.H.D. Rouse

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#143389 - 02/27/07 06:59 AM Re: All Lies........... [Re: outis]
outis Offline
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Registered: 02/27/03
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Loc: Maryland USA
"You brought this on yourself."

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"Telemachos, your guest is no discredit to you. I wasted no time in stringing the bow, and I did not miss the mark. My strength is yet unbroken…"—The Odyssey, translated by W.H.D. Rouse

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#143452 - 02/27/07 11:42 PM Re: All Lies........... [Re: outis]
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Registered: 11/03/05
Posts: 1159
"It's only pictures."

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#379816 - 12/17/11 07:00 AM Re: All Lies........... [Re: Cement]
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Registered: 12/15/09
Posts: 1626
Loc: Minnesota
Someone just revived the post-

My biggest lie has been-

"Being truly honest about this will kill me"

The opposite has been true and continues to be true in my life.

When I have been honest about my own feelings, my struggles, and my behaviors I step out of secrecy and forward into healing-it may be painful to admit certain things but holding them in has hurt me far more.



Edited by Mountainous Buck (12/17/11 09:09 AM)
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#447711 - 09/20/13 02:03 AM Re: All Lies........... [Re: Don-NY]
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Registered: 01/14/13
Posts: 5
This thread really helps me. bumping it up.

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#447723 - 09/20/13 07:35 AM Re: All Lies........... [Re: Don-NY]
Jacob S Offline
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Registered: 01/01/13
Posts: 550
good companion thread to "dumbest thing I was ever told"

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=436332&page=1
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#447787 - 09/20/13 11:25 PM Re: All Lies........... [Re: Don-NY]
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Registered: 08/29/12
Posts: 545
Thanks for the bump skipflip and the companion thread Jacob. Needed this one tonight.
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#448716 - 09/29/13 07:56 PM Re: All Lies........... [Re: Don-NY]
gettingstronger Offline


Registered: 09/24/13
Posts: 135
Loc: Virginia
Truly awesome job on these, guys. Thanks for sharing-- this has helped me immensely. I know it's been said before, but amazing things happen when you drag the things floating around in the nether reaches of your mind out into the daylight and take a good look at them. That's exactly what this has done for me. Thanks again.

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#453779 - 11/15/13 12:44 PM Re: All Lies........... [Re: Don-NY]
jas4159 Offline


Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 245
It was my fault,

I am over it.

I am not damaged.

i have no wounds to heal.

rich

justanothersurvivror.wordpress.com
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Thanks

rich

justanothersurvivror.wordpress.com

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