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#3321 - 08/30/05 08:34 AM Re: All Lies...........
Darkheart Offline
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Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 331
Loc: Illinois
My lie:
It never happened!

The TRUTH has set me free!

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My Story...

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...8711#Post348711

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#3322 - 08/30/05 08:42 AM Re: All Lies...........
Dewey2k Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 08/22/05
Posts: 3069
My lie:
It wasn't that bad.

The Truth:
Yeah, it was. Now I can deal with it.


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#3323 - 08/30/05 08:47 AM Re: All Lies...........
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1674
Loc: Moscow, Russia
Lies I try to batlle:

I am gay

People (women) do not help, only hurt

Mom is not alcoholic

They have not wanted to possess me


Thanks.

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#3324 - 08/30/05 09:35 AM Re: All Lies...........
Grunty1967b Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/28/05
Posts: 823
Loc: Australia
My Lie:
# 1. It went on for so many years, I must have wanted it to.

# 2. It was family, so there was nothing wrong with it - just harmless experimenting.

Truth:
# 1. Wrong
# 2. Wrong


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#3325 - 08/30/05 03:33 PM Re: All Lies...........
Mystic Rhythm Offline
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Registered: 08/12/05
Posts: 96
Loc: Limbo, clawing my way out...
MY LIE!

"It's all right, all virgins go through this." - Her answer to why my body was shaking so much while she was violating me.
http://malesurvivor.org/cgi-local/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=005815;p=1#000010

TRUTH
BULLSHIT! You're first time is supposed to be special, and maybe awkward, but NOT VIOLATING!

Whoa, that felt good! \:\)

A LIE I do that I'm sick of doing:
"Good morning, MR, how are you today?"
"I'm (good, fine, pretty good, etc)."

TRUTH
I'm not. I want to tell them all I'm suffering, but I know none of them would be able to handle my story, and I'd spend my time defending myself from accusatory remarks and what-nots. I WANT THAT LIE TO BE THE TRUTH FOR A CHANGE!!!

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"Don't give up and lose the chance to return to innocence" - Enigma, Return to Innocence

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#3326 - 08/31/05 01:54 AM Re: All Lies...........
Grunty1967b Offline
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Registered: 07/28/05
Posts: 823
Loc: Australia
MR,

If the "how are you?" question is out there in the big wide world, then a full honest blown reply and your reasons may not always be prudent. I'm not saying to lie, but maybe a scaled down version like OK, or probably a truthful one like "been better, but I've also been worse". I'm sure you can say that one with honesty. I know I can.

Wisdom and discernment!

In here however, I believe you need to be honest, for you own sake, and you should be able to trust the people in here when you are honest.

I'm getting so much out of being brutally honest, revealing of my inner self and all my fears, rejections, self doubt and all the yukky stuff that I dare not tell anybody else. This is so good for me to be able to do that all in the safety that is afforded in here. I trust you will feel that security too.


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#3327 - 08/31/05 06:41 AM Re: All Lies...........
aardvark Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/06/05
Posts: 38
Loc: new york
Lie

If you ignore it it goes away.

I dont need help, I can stop doing it anytime I want.

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#3328 - 08/31/05 04:11 PM Re: All Lies...........
Mystic Rhythm Offline
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Registered: 08/12/05
Posts: 96
Loc: Limbo, clawing my way out...
Quote:
In here however, I believe you need to be honest, for you own sake, and you should be able to trust the people in here when you are honest.
Yeah in here I am honest. Whatever flows from my mind to the keyboard has always been honest on this forum. The "How are you?" is at work, and sometimes at home. I say I'm fine or good to avoid probing questions. I've learned all too often in past employments that to constantly portray a negative attitude can seriously affect not only the work but continued employment as well. So I use my practiced smile and be the good little employee and say I'm fine or good or not too shabby, etc...

Sorry, should have better specified. Hope this clarifies things.

MR

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#3329 - 09/01/05 10:32 AM Re: All Lies...........
kaceechase Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/05/05
Posts: 132
Loc: Georgia
LIEs**********

I am Ugly.
I Could have stopped it.
i liked it.
it only happened a few times, there are people much worse off than you--get over it, already.
I Am Unloveable.
I Have Become My Uncle.
SomeDay I will Turn INTO My Uncle.
I am Crazy.
I Am Stupid.
I Am Not Worth It.
I Do Not Matter.
I Am A Pervert.
I Am Sick.
I Am Nasty.
I am Lost.
I am Alone.
I WILL BE SENT BACK TO THE ORPHANAGE. (A Childish Lie I believe when I was a Kid and still feel in my Bones Now and then)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
The TRUTH!!!!

None of it Was MY Fault!!! I am The ComPlete Opposite of Most of those LIES and

The Future Is My Resposability, I Am In Charge of What I Make of It. Not My Uncle or My Parents that Missed out on Knowing an Awesome Man, Me.

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Come What May!
My name is Ken
I am a Work in Progress, Please excuse the mess from time to time!

I finally Realize, The abuse and it's Direct effects are NOT MY FAULT but The Rest of MY Life IS!

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#3330 - 09/04/05 01:48 PM Re: All Lies...........
VN Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 06/03/05
Posts: 723
Lie of the past:

I defend you.

Only, that you want.

I try to help you.

You are stupid.

You are nothing worth.

You - a joke.

You will never succeed.

No woman will ever love you as I do.

You - loser.

You are ugly and bad.

You speak it, I kill you.

You will die young. (I hope, that it - lie).


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