I would recommend the Mike Lew workshop. If you can get ahold of Lewis (King Tut) he attended one recently in England. I am going to attend the Conference from Thursday through the awards luncheon Saturday, though I haven't as yet made up my mind on which of the groups to attend other than one by Steve LaPore concerning people providing online support to male survivors. If you would be interested in sharing a room to help with costs I would be willing to. I have found several possibilities near the subway on Manhattan for $75-$80 per night each if two guys shared a room, or the Super 8 in Stamford is only $80/night for a double room plus the cost of the train and subway from there. I'm flying in and out of LaGuardia so the cost of getting to Stamford would have to be considered too.
Anyway, I think that the Mike Lew workshop might be a decent deal for you, and I think that you should plan to attend it if you have the time and money to do so. Mike Lew is one of the most-respected pioneers of CSA recovery and I think that you could benefit from attending.
"We stay here, we die here. We've got to keep moving". Trucker Mark