I'll cut to the quick- my grandparents both have serious health issues.
My grandmother has Alzheimer's.
My grandfather has dementia.
My grandmother has been dealing with this for a long time. I remember this when I was a little kid. Nothing can help her pretty much.
My grandfather, he had a couple of heart attacks and one or two Urinary Tract Infections. Anyone with medical experience knows what that does. Half the time he doesn't even know who I am.
Ok, so with that said, there isn't anything I can do for either of them except love them as much as I can while respecting their illnesses and their space.
Well, my mother and sister are the problem. They keep trying to seize my grandparents assets. Well, we, my step brother and I, we took actions in court to keep that fropm happening.
Now *I* and under fire. Turned out now they are trying to get conservatorship over MY disability income.
Keep in mind this is the same mother and sister that had working knowledge of my rape. And they did nothing about it. As required by state law.
Trust me, I'm having family problems.