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#311289 - 11/21/09 11:33 AM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: seeker43]
Charlie24 Offline


Registered: 09/28/08
Posts: 562
Great topic Allen.

I ended my abuse by just finally saying NO!!!!!!!!!!

Loud and clear.

I don't remember it exactly but I do think part of it was similar to Allen and gradually just avoiding him.

But I believe I also said a big NO to him. I think it was empowering to finally just stand up to that fucker who used me.


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#311296 - 11/21/09 12:31 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: seeker43]
OKIE MIKE Offline
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Registered: 02/13/04
Posts: 982
Loc: HULBERT OK
I was discharged from the US Army . By abuse was caused by an (E-7) that was in charge of the battalion personell office.

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#311300 - 11/21/09 01:45 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: OKIE MIKE]
Casmir213 Offline
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Registered: 05/14/09
Posts: 845
Loc: Northeast, USA
My sexual abuse ended on the same night it happened, when my mother walked into the bedroom (where me and my father were) just after I had been sexually abused by him. She knew from what I told her what had happened and then told him about it the next morning. He never did it again.

Take care Allen and guys,

Rocco

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#311302 - 11/21/09 02:34 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: Casmir213]
Logan Offline
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Registered: 04/05/03
Posts: 1238
Loc: NY
My neighbor just left when i was 8. He moved away with his Dad.

My second perp went to jail for armed robbery when I was 14 to 15ish.

Logan



Edited by Logan (11/21/09 02:44 PM)
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#311307 - 11/21/09 03:28 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: Logan]
boylikeme Offline


Registered: 08/10/09
Posts: 546
Loc: hell
my parents split up n my mum moved us to germany... still had email contact with my person for a while.. but it got less n less n then just stopped.. guess im not that interesting when its just words on a screen

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#311309 - 11/21/09 03:34 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: boylikeme]
nevragan Offline
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Registered: 10/22/08
Posts: 907
Loc: NC
My first perp's abuse ended that same night he raped me. My second perp's abuse ended the night my dad walked in on us acting out. That was difficult to say but I feel better now.


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#311315 - 11/21/09 04:11 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: nevragan]
Bewlayb1 Offline
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Registered: 08/03/07
Posts: 243
Loc: NYC
The former gym teacher came back. His two-and-a-half-year replacement was let go. The abuse stopped randomly, and so my life was spared randomly. Weird to think about.


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#311320 - 11/21/09 05:26 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: Bewlayb1]
1islandboy Offline
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Registered: 06/23/08
Posts: 862
Loc: washington
This may sound stupid...but the answer for me is...time.


Time (Pink Floyd)

island

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#311321 - 11/21/09 05:36 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: 1islandboy]
Elad 12 Offline
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Registered: 02/15/05
Posts: 1176
Loc: on the coast
The neighbor that abused me for 3+ years moved away when I was 8.
Happy day, but then my mother took me to visit him one more. That
was the last time he abused me.

Dale


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#311322 - 11/21/09 05:41 PM Re: What ended your abuse? [Re: Hauser]
jls Offline


Registered: 03/06/09
Posts: 1142
I was a kid living on the streets when it was happening. One day I simply lost contact with him. I remember though months afterward feeling terrified that I was going to run into him again. Just recently I was reminded of him at work. I work in a homeless shelter and a new intake came that resembled him a little bit, which needless to say was triggering. I couldn't wonder how I would react if it was him.

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