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#305989 - 10/11/09 11:52 AM the women in my family before my perp (triggers)
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Edited by sono (02/28/15 03:13 PM)
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#309037 - 11/02/09 02:32 PM Re: the women in my family before my perp (triggers) [Re: sono]
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thank you for sharing this. really. i feel weird when i have to talk about the things my female cousin and my oldest brother made me do. i can't quite pin-point the exact emotion, but there is a myriad of things i feel and neither of them is anything good.

but, again, thank you for sharing your story.

Remy

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#309074 - 11/02/09 05:42 PM Re: the women in my family before my perp (triggers) [Re: h.beat,h.break]
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Written by Sono:

"I slept in the same bed with my grandmother from the time I was 5 till 11 or 12. I think I was a natural substitute for my grandfather who had passed away prior to her moving to us. I seriously don’t have memories of anything terribly specific other than being in bed and “pretending” to be lovers. I can’t fathom that anything happened…but maybe laying there and holding each other and kissing was enough to make that a weird experience for me. This next is very difficult to write, but I know it’s all OK here…she wiped me way beyond the age that is OK, I mean seriously way beyond that age. It never struck me until this process of looking at everything, but the reason was that I couldn’t bring myself to put my hand back there. Maybe that doesn’t mean anything, who knows. I do know I had and have a clean hand fetish".

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#309137 - 11/03/09 09:56 AM Re: the women in my family before my perp (triggers) [Re: Trucker51]
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Mark,

Thank you very much for your words. When I get back home, I'm on the road now working, I will review those passages you cite. I read the book once though, but it was fast and as they say with one eye closed because too much of it was too close at that point in this process for me. Thanks for reminding me, I think I can now read it with eyes wide open!

H.B. We've been ending up in chat several times lately, and I just wanna thank you for what you said there in your post and maybe it helps you in that "I"m not alone way". I know your words here today helped me in that way.

thanks guys,

sono

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