This is a great topic, it makes me feel good that you have this insight about yourself.
Personally, I feel I am a lot like my mom in the fact that, I wear my heart on my sleaves. Life has hardened my shell, but my interior feels soft.
Androgeny is about balance. I believe it is a never ending struggle to stay comfortable in my own skin by working daily on personal self esteem.
TMI...I have worked with the general public for the last twenty years and there are those that will attack you to simply to inflict there will,(right or wrong)...in order get there own way. (Water off a ducks back, outside of self...doesn't have to be personal).
In the end, I cherish being sensitive...but being overly sensitive, just leads to emotional hangovers.
Boys Don't Cry (Plumb)
Rise above the storm and you will find the sunshine ~ M.F. Fernandez