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#309619 - 11/07/09 04:44 PM Re: moms [Re: sono]
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Registered: 02/20/08
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Michael.

I like your words about being our own parents. I have been nurturing Donnie for a few months. I realize how I have treated him but also have changed that treatment.

My mom has changed. Unfortanately, NOT early enough for the little/young me but, she is there for me now. I talked about my young mom earlier.

I have had a need for money the last several months and she has given me alot.

I have posted here a wonderful email I got from her regarding my perp.

I am glad I am apart of the members in this place.

DJ

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#314029 - 12/11/09 03:34 PM Re: moms [Re: DJsport]
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I am so f$%^&*( angry with my mom. All of the years she was so consumed with her self so was NOT a mom for me or my sister.

At thanksgiving she told the family my 3 yr old nephew has a mean streak. WOW WOW WOW.

She never allow me to be a kid ever. She never saw her lil boy was badly hurt.

I have so much pent up anger and hostility. I catered to her.

Anyway, I need to pull up this thread and acknowledge where my anger needs to be directed.

Donnie

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#314193 - 12/13/09 01:08 AM Re: moms [Re: DJsport]
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Registered: 09/04/07
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Donnie,

I don't know if you ever read books for your recovery, but there is a good book that really helped me when anger was really a problem. It's called When Anger Hurts by Matthew McKay et al. I think of all the parts of recovery I've dealt with, anger is among the top two.

You are doing the right thing by identifying where the anger should be directed so it isn't directed at yourself or little Donnie. Keep working and know we are here to support you!

Peace and love...

Michael


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#314205 - 12/13/09 03:02 AM Re: moms [Re: M3]
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Registered: 07/19/09
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Originally Posted By: M3


You are doing the right thing by identifying where the anger should be directed so it isn't directed at yourself or little Donnie.


...or to little any of us...Amen to that!!!!!

sono

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#314208 - 12/13/09 03:56 AM Re: moms [Re: michael banks]
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Registered: 10/29/09
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