You hit the nail right on the head with that analogy
I know its tough, but think of us like a friend who might have had a car accident. Try ignoring the nature of our injuries and focus on maintaining contact. Not hearing from you further issolates us (which can become permanent for a lot of us).
Excellent point,one that I'm going to remember next time I try to tell someone what it's like to be a survivor, and I have had people ask me, "What do you do when you hear your loved one has been violated?". I'm blessed that so many people have reached out to me in so many ways.
So Robbie, how can we reach out to you?