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#298851 - 08/11/09 01:56 PM Where Should I Post?
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#298854 - 08/11/09 02:26 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: Disappointed]
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I am a survivor.

My question is why are women so focused on guys who are disappointing. Ok yes, csa is destructive and mortifying and kills the spirit for the victims and the perp for that matter. But if your "healthy" and others "survivor" is needing fixed then is the relationship ever going to be equal thus mutually giving.

Just a question and my personal opinion. This comes from a man who is single by the way.

DJ

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#298855 - 08/11/09 02:31 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: DJsport]
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#298857 - 08/11/09 02:54 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: Disappointed]
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Disappointed,

you questions would best be asked/answered in the Family and Friends Forum

Welcome to MS - I hope you can find the answers you are seeking - perhaps just browsing some of the older post in the Family and Friends Forum will help to abnswer some of your questions

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#298859 - 08/11/09 03:06 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: TJ jeff]
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Hi.

I have alerted the modteam for transferring this thread.

It is just a question on my part NOTHING more. So no one take offense.

I asked the question because I am at a place in my life where I do not feel wanted or even appreciated to the point of living my life alone.

Thanks,
DJ

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#298865 - 08/11/09 05:06 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: DJsport]
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#298891 - 08/11/09 08:34 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: Disappointed]
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I'm confused here. So you only know him from the internet right? and you met him on an unusual website. Well maybe he is embarassed about that, maybe he wants to keep that fantasy or whatever of his on-line. He may be a completely different person off-line. Do you know for sure that he is not already in a relationship? and what do you mean about him behaving like a girl? are you just stereotyping here?

I'm not convinced that your post belongs here, it sounds like it may be better placed in a dating forum of another website. This doesn't seem to be a question about survivor issues just a dating question.

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#298905 - 08/11/09 09:59 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: king tut]
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Have you considered the possibility that his "real life" is not at all what you see his online life to be? I run across people from time to time who build a whole persona around their online identity that has no resemblance to who or what they are IRL. Their online representation of themselves is a fraud built from their fantasy world.

I certainly would not place an inordinate amount of time fretting over such a relationship. If he does not want you in his "real life" there's probably good reason and you should run like hell. Sorry for the bluntness but it needs to be said.

I wish you the best,

John

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#298913 - 08/11/09 11:02 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: WalkingSouth]
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#298914 - 08/11/09 11:18 PM Re: Where Should I Post? [Re: king tut]
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Edited by Disappointed (12/19/10 08:45 PM)
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