I'm confused here. So you only know him from the internet right? and you met him on an unusual website. Well maybe he is embarassed about that, maybe he wants to keep that fantasy or whatever of his on-line. He may be a completely different person off-line. Do you know for sure that he is not already in a relationship? and what do you mean about him behaving like a girl? are you just stereotyping here?
I'm not convinced that your post belongs here, it sounds like it may be better placed in a dating forum of another website. This doesn't seem to be a question about survivor issues just a dating question.
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I love you, little lewis, and i will never leave you. We are the same. You brighten my day, and i will make sure that i brighten yours. Hugs and kisses.