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#293440 - 06/28/09 11:46 PM Re: Am I a Chicken or a Duck? [Re: Jim1961]
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Registered: 04/17/09
Posts: 203
Loc: Utah
Jim,
Thanks for your comments. It is hard many times for me to get to that calm, in control, all is well feeling of love but when I do things always work out better.


Keep happy, Ted



Edited by Tedure (07/12/09 01:33 AM)
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#293840 - 07/01/09 06:01 PM Re: Am I a Chicken or a Duck? [Re: Jim1961]
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Jim,
With out real love we are all damaged. I have to tell myself every day that: LOVE is a calm, in control, all is well feeling—“Your welfare is more important to me than my own.” It is free of fear and anger.

Remember the need for LOVE is as strong as the need for air or food. It is a basic need for every child born on this earth. If the Love needs are not met the child or adult will strive in a negative way to meet those needs. ( We have all been there)Many will cycle into addictions. Some will survive and some will not. We are all blessed, We have survived.

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#294912 - 07/11/09 12:32 AM Re: Am I a Chicken or a Duck? [Re: Jim1961]
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Jim ,

Thanks for your insightful comments and kind words. That itself is one way we show love to each other. you asked:

"Was the mother hen ever able to let go of her instincts and allow them to choose? That...would be love, wouldn't it?"

Sorry, It was so long ago I can't remember the final out come...Maybe that is best because it's up to us to write our own endings. We now have the power within us to choose our out comes. When as children we didn't!

Take care, Ted









Edited by Tedure (07/12/09 01:33 AM)
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