In church today the message was:
Adversity and Conflict are all necessary in this Life. (that's how we learn, that's why we are here)
Misery is optional! (we can choose our reaction to this adversity)
LOVE is also optional (we can choose who we love and how we love)
Today is my 35th Wedding anniversary, so I guess you could say I know a little bit about adversity, conflict, misery, and LOVE...most of the time I choose LOVE. I have to work hard every day to avoid the misery and try to have a positive attitude. My life has been blessed.
When you change the way you look at things the things you look at change.