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#287873 - 05/17/09 10:17 PM Admitting I'm attracted to men
OldTrafford Offline
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Registered: 01/14/03
Posts: 9
Loc: wisconsin
Hi - I don't post much, but I do read a lot of posts. I always appreciate everyone's openness and honesty.

Today, I wrote a letter to my ex-wife admitting that I'm attracted to men. Not sure when I will give it to her, but I'm tired of hiding.

Similar to many posts, I'm trying to avoid labels. I enjoy sex with women, and I've never had any triggers in those situations.

I've had secretive, hurried sex with men, followed by guilt. I'm hoping by coming out, if only to her, that I relax and enjoy a relationship with a man.

Wish me luck!

#287884 - 05/18/09 12:23 AM Re: Admitting I'm attracted to men [Re: OldTrafford]
TNuss Offline

Registered: 02/28/06
Posts: 202
Loc: Del-A-Ware???
Best of luck to you, thought will be with you.

All my best!!!

In harmony,
I hug myself daily until the day I find the embrace that completes me.

#287915 - 05/18/09 09:47 AM Re: Admitting I'm attracted to men [Re: TNuss]
king tut Offline

Registered: 02/13/08
Posts: 2469
Loc: UK
In the letter you will have to try to explain why you want your ex-wife to know, we know why you want your ex-wife to know, but your ex-wife may be confused as to why you are telling her this, she could take it the wrong way, so your purpose should be made clear to her

"...until lambs become lions"

I love you, little lewis, and i will never leave you. We are the same. You brighten my day, and i will make sure that i brighten yours. Hugs and kisses.


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