Hi there,

your post was so helpful and on point. it helped me tremendously. Thank you...j

My ex and I are both survivors. When she and I were together it was more than a year before we had intercourse. However, this wasn't a bad thing since we quite happily engaged in other forms of mutual stimulation together. Even after we had intercourse for the first time this continued, which I was grateful for since it brought creativity to our sex life. It also helped me appreciate how special sexual intercourse is with someone you love deeply. At least it was for me anyways.