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#286594 - 05/07/09 11:21 AM Lunch with the Ex
Freedom49 Offline
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Registered: 12/30/07
Posts: 2723
Loc: Washington State
I have suggested to my ex that we meet for lunch the three of us on sunday for Mother's Day as both of our mothers are gone. A time of recalling the good times and sharing them with Lyndsey so she can connect somewhat and remember her grandmothers. I am really hoping that this will be a good time of bonding and will help ease tensions between us. She was very receptive to the idea and agreed. I hope I know what I am doing. This is an emotionally difficult time for me but I am really going to try to make it upbeat and fun. Good thoughts, prayers, well wishes, positive karma whatever you can send my way.

Thank you.


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#286624 - 05/07/09 04:44 PM Re: Lunch with the Ex [Re: Freedom49]
Freedom49 Offline
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Forget it. She cancelled. Said something "came up".

Sigh.....


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#286642 - 05/07/09 07:37 PM Re: Lunch with the Ex [Re: Freedom49]
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Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
Roger,

Sorry you must be hurting right now.
You are still in my prayers and thoughts.
Be there when she and your daughter need you. You never know what the future will bring. Until then focus on your life and recovery.

Best Wishes

Mike

_________________________
To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human.
-Robert Johnson-

"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun

WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009

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#286708 - 05/08/09 03:06 AM Re: Lunch with the Ex [Re: michael banks]
Freedom49 Offline
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You are right Mike, I am hurting and angry and frustrated. I am trying not to throw in the towel to the whole mess and hurt my daughters feelings. It is midnight here and I am still so...well, ok hurt that I can't sleep. What a mess I have made of my life. I just hate it. Thanks for your kind words.


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