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#278799 - 03/09/09 03:50 PM No Sexuality
kellygtx Guest Registered: 07/11/07 Posts: 412 Loc: Texas, USA	I have not been around in awhile feeling like I have a pretty good grip on everything and am doing pretty good - and I am - with everything except sex and sexuality. I know, that is like saying everything at the zoo is OK but the elephant is sick right? Well, it just seems for about the last 12 months I have had no real sense of sexuality and no desire for sex. In fact I have not had an sort of sexual contact with my wife in now about 9 months. I don't masterbate or look at porn (that was never anything I liked to begin with) - NOTHING. In fact I shower with the lights off and really don't want to ever be without clothes on. I know some will say I have to get used to being sexual or accepting sex in a healthy way but I don't miss it at all - in fact I am pretty comfortable not having to worry about it. When I try to think about something sexual I get no where fast - if I keep trying I just really get nothing...I don't feel anything - there is nothing pleasurable---just nothing. Is it normal to go through a phase like this? _________________________ I bid you Peace. Kelly The time is always NOW. Breath In. Breath Out. Move On.
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#278828 - 03/09/09 07:39 PM Re: No Sexuality [Re: kellygtx]
Ken Singer, LCSW Moderator MaleSurvivor Registered: 08/24/00 Posts: 5725 Loc: Lambertville, NJ USA	I suppose if you live by yourself and are comfortable with no sexual interests or responses, it would be fine. However, how does your wife feel about that?
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#280404 - 03/22/09 07:20 PM Re: No Sexuality [Re: Ken Singer, LCSW]
myboyhoodfears Registered: 03/13/09 Posts: 457	i wish i had no sexual intrests...it's way over rated...more problems than its worth. Edited by myboyhoodfears (03/22/09 07:20 PM) _________________________ Post Nubilia Pheobus
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#280412 - 03/22/09 08:43 PM Re: No Sexuality [Re: myboyhoodfears]
FormerTexan Site Administrator MaleSurvivor Registered: 09/12/04 Posts: 9970 Loc: Denver, CO	mbf, I totally agree. _________________________ Money talks ... but all it tells me is 'goodbye.'
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#280424 - 03/22/09 10:49 PM Re: No Sexuality [Re: FormerTexan]
TJ jeff Moderator MaleSurvivor Registered: 08/07/04 Posts: 3310 Loc: Northern Wisconsin	I dunno guys.... I mean... I know the feeling well of having no interest whatsoever in sex - I went over 10 years totaly celebit but... the right woman came along - totaly opened me up - took me to places I did'nt even know I "wanted" to go sexualy untill after I went there... I guess all I'm trying to say is... life can really change in a big hurry sometimes - the most important thing is to relax and just enjoy the journey abuse makes it hard for us to just let go though - that's why we need good therapists to work out these issues from the past with _________________________ Who will cry for the little boy? - I will... - Antwone Fisher Abuse happens in silence/isolation - Recovery happens only when that silence/isolation is broken... TJ's History
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#280449 - 03/23/09 06:31 AM Re: No Sexuality [Re: TJ jeff]
michael banks Registered: 06/12/08 Posts: 1755 Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca	Jeff, Was that totally celbit? No masturbation or nothing for ten years? If so, How did you manage that? I have not masturbated in about ten days and my wife is looking better everyday. Mike _________________________ To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human. -Robert Johnson- "IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009
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