One question. How the HELL does one let go of old girl friends. The situations of the past have been playing in my head over and over again. Thoughts and emotions have been racing profusely. I feel sadness, depression, shame, anger, jealousy, and helplessness. Sometimes from memories of women I've dated 12 years ago. I want to get them out of my head so I can move on and meet someone new.
I've blown off new women I meet because I have a negative view of them. I don't trust them and I look at them as evil. I have lots of women I'm friends with that I trust but I would never GO THERE with relationships because I believe they would use me or reject me as a person (I know that is irrational but I wanted to express that).
I want new relationships and I want to get rid of all of the bullsh@t that is left in my head from old girl friends. I don't need that in my life. It does me no good and common sense tells me to JUST LET IT GO but that garbage of women from my past that aren't even worth my time keeps popping up in my head over and over again. How do I stop it and why have I failed to let that go? Any pointers?
Anyone have any suggestions or pointers?
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