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#27953 - 03/11/05 02:54 PM T.G.I.F.
xenoman Offline
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Registered: 03/11/05
Posts: 18
Loc: Montana
Hello Everyone,

Thank God its Friday and Thank God I found somewhere that I can open up and release this crap that has been in my head for over 40 years. I discovered A.A. and now am on my 4th year of Sobriety. With a clear mind now I am able to deal with my SA that happened when I was 11 or 12. I always wondered Why? After reading some of the posts here in this site I can now see a little clearer with a little bit of understanding and feel greatly relieved that there is a place in this world where I can open up and let out these repressed feelings I have had for so many years.
I dont feel safe enough to pour out my story just yet but in time I will. Through my other recovery program I am now beginning to accept the fact that it was not my fault. I hope that some of you will write and through this process of release we can all find healing and enjoy a life that was meant to be happy without the "ghost or demons" we have had to carry around all of these years. I am most grateful to all of you and to the ones that were brave enough to start a site such as this. Peace
and blessings...Xenoman (pronounced ZeeNoMan)


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#27954 - 03/11/05 10:51 PM Re: T.G.I.F.
FLRich Offline
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Registered: 06/21/04
Posts: 1404
Welcome to MaleSurvivor, Xenoman! This is the right place to be if you must deal with SA issues. The guys here are great. The bravest bunch of men I have ever known. Also the most understanding men I have ever known. You'll never be judged here or be made to feel guilty or ashamed. You won't be made to feel unclean. This site is a Godsend for me and these guys are, too.

Congratulations on your 4 years of sobriety! You're a strong man.

Good Luck


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#27955 - 03/12/05 01:43 AM Re: T.G.I.F.
Bobby Offline
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Registered: 12/01/04
Posts: 1287
Loc: Arizona
Welcome, Xenoman, we're sorry that you had a reason to seek us, but glad you found us. These guys are great. Be sure to take advantage of their wisdom and their caring. You'll be amazed at both. Bobby

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I'm healing now, and I wasn't sure I would.




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#27956 - 03/13/05 01:08 AM Re: T.G.I.F.
RICK57 Offline
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Registered: 12/31/03
Posts: 1611
Loc: ENGLAND
Welcome Xenoman - this is a great place to find support without judgement. Take your time and get what you need from the site. You don't have to post all the time & you don't have to say more than you want to.

I have learned much simply by reading what others write here.

Wishing you strength on the journey...Rik

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*Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up.
*I was seeking a way of expressing my anger - I found hope!
*There are many battles before the war is won! It can be won!

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