Mr. don's advice in the US particularly is very valid. I do not know about the Netherlands. the other thing to consider is if you are ready for the publicity. Don't do this if it would revictimize you.
The slience if awful, but you do not have to be a martyr to end it. Take care of yourself first and then look to the other issues.
Everything works out right in the end. If things are not working right, it isn't the end yet. Don't let it bother you, relax and keep on goin
- Michael C. Muhammad
"I get up. I walk. I fall down. Meanwhile, I keep dancing."
� Rabbi Hillel