haha! ant thoughts? LOL well let's have a picnic and see!
on the other hand, my perp brother died of a cerebral hemorrhage at the age of 23. since then, have had to deal with the effects of having been abused by him. so i can't relate to having a living perp. [although my 4 rapists are another story....] you know, we could go on and on about how ruined our lives are by these people, but at some point a decision has to be made. do we allow these people to continue to determine our future happiness?
how can we move in a direction that allows us to take back what hey have stolen from us?
how can we become the people we were intended to be,in spite of the interruptions?