I wasnt judging, exactely, i was just being catious. I just wanted to know the context of the message. It might have been about how screwed up oc is, or misinterpeted entirely. I have heard that perpatrators sometimes hang around and i was just protecting myself. There is no need to jump to conclusions. If it was a mistake, then no real harms been done.

oops, that reply was supposed to go on the other topic, ("shakey") sorry. Hey tinfoil, dont flip out man, people only reacted that way because they have a right to be a little catious. I dont know why you would be ashamed of this forum, if think your doing something wrong here and you want to stop, then people here will still listen. If not, then there is no trouble.

Again maybe im reading too much into it, but regardless, everybody who makes a commitment to healing has a right to be heard. We must protect ourselves, but we have to be willing to try and trust each other if we expect to get anything through cummunication here.