I am pissed off. I made a post called male sexually abuses male and they changed the title of it to "the way I see it"---??? I was sexually abused from ages 5-12, 3 abusers in total and NOW I can't even pick my own title for my post on a site that is for victims of sexual abuse? what the hell is that?

None, I believe you are confused since that latest thread you posted in was titled "the way I see it" and it has always been titled that. No one changed the title of that thread.

no... it was called male sexually abuses male
and I would never call it "the way I see it"----

I believe we are talking about two different threads. The one you posted in called "the way I see it" is here:

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...6548#Post266548

The other one you posted in about male sexually abuses male was removed and Larry has already contacted you about that one. If you have further questions about that, please contact him.

None, I don't know if you realized, but all of the threads in response to you, are listed as replies in regards to, or "RE: The way I see it." I think the mods are clear that they did not change the title of your post, and I highly doubt that they did. If they had, they would have had to change the title to all of the replies as well.

Furthermore, the title "The way I see it..." makes perfect sense to what you wrote in the original post. Put it together, and you'll see... LOOK


The way I see it...


It would not have made sense with the other title you are suggesting.

I'm with Ken on the 10 minute rule... but I usually tell my students that they should sleep on it before hitting send.

Allen

PS... it would not have made sense for the title to have been "male sexually abuses male" and then followed by what you had written.

The site software won't allow even a mod to edit a someone else's post without a notice being put in the post in italics that it has been edited. Can't be done without that notice showing very evidently in the post.