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#261977 - 11/16/08 01:44 AM Suicide
Melancholy Offline


Registered: 10/21/08
Posts: 19
Loc: Canada
Just after midnight I lost contact with him.. cry ..and I fear the worst. I've been in touch with the police.. but now I just have to wait and try to function with this overwhelming grief.

I just had to put that out there.. thanks for reading.


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#262008 - 11/16/08 04:39 AM Re: Suicide [Re: Melancholy]
MissMyra Offline


Registered: 09/24/08
Posts: 19
Loc: UK
(((((Melancholy)))))

That is really terrible, I'm so, so, sorry... but you don't know anything for sure yet, so please don't give up hope just yet. You did the right thing by contacting the police.

Please take care of yourself. PM me if you like.

You'll both be in my thoughts. I really hope it'll all be ok.


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#262035 - 11/16/08 11:33 AM Re: Suicide [Re: MissMyra]
Melancholy Offline


Registered: 10/21/08
Posts: 19
Loc: Canada
I'm trying to hang onto that sliver of hope, but as the hours pass I'm less and less hopeful.

It's so difficult, so overwhelming.. I don't know what to do.


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#262049 - 11/16/08 12:52 PM Re: Suicide [Re: Melancholy]
riz Offline


Registered: 10/07/08
Posts: 123
hi melancholy,

i'm afraid i don't have any wise words for you, but i wanted you to know that another person is with you and praying for you and your loved one, hoping to send you a little more strength to make it through such a gut wrenching situation.

love,
riz


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#262058 - 11/16/08 02:17 PM Re: Suicide [Re: riz]
Melancholy Offline


Registered: 10/21/08
Posts: 19
Loc: Canada
Thank you Riz,

It's so difficult, and having to rely soley on police work isn't reassuring. I do not have any contact information for his family, so seems harder.. not having them to reach out to.


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#262063 - 11/16/08 03:00 PM Re: Suicide [Re: Melancholy]
wes-b Offline
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Registered: 08/17/07
Posts: 438
Loc: Western, Canada

*supportive hug* my prayers are en route.

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Happy to be a recovering survivor. :-)

Continuing to meet more of my fellows as I "Trudge the Road of Happy Destiny".

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#262082 - 11/16/08 05:11 PM Re: Suicide [Re: wes-b]
Melancholy Offline


Registered: 10/21/08
Posts: 19
Loc: Canada
Thank you wes-b, they are very much appreciated.


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#262124 - 11/16/08 09:00 PM Re: Suicide [Re: Melancholy]
riz Offline


Registered: 10/07/08
Posts: 123
melancholy,

how are you doing? any news? do you have any family or friends that know about this that can offer any support?

riz


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#262125 - 11/16/08 09:05 PM Re: Suicide [Re: riz]
Melancholy Offline


Registered: 10/21/08
Posts: 19
Loc: Canada
I'm surviving, a wreck.. but I'm still here. I haven't heard anything, and I guess the cell phone on his battery finally gave out.. because all calls are just going directly to voicemail. frown

I've been on the phone with various police departments, but nothing solid.. and of course, since I'm not directly related they can't promise me any sort of response even if they do find something out.

The family knows of me, but I don't know if they know how to get in touch with me.. or if they even would.

I'm supposed to speak with a dectective tomorrow morning, so hopefully that yields some sort of hope.

Thank you for your concern riz.


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#262198 - 11/17/08 06:48 AM Re: Suicide [Re: Melancholy]
soapy bubbles Offline
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Registered: 09/05/06
Posts: 332
Loc: london
I've been through what you're going through.
PM me if you'd like to.
Thinking of you.
SB

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