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#261550 - 11/14/08 01:48 AM Jesus is helping me Mature!
Marinan Offline

Registered: 07/03/07
Posts: 330
i was thinking about people abusing me and attacking me and I felt guilty because I for a moment I bought the lie that I was at fault .
But then the Lord said that no one has ever had the right to lay their hands on me. And he meant it in a way I could understand it. No Ministers or holy people,no evil people, and no spirits have ever or will ever or do have the right to ever manipulate me or harm me

#261565 - 11/14/08 07:38 AM Re: Jesus is helping me Mature! [Re: Marinan]
ttoon Offline

Registered: 06/19/07
Posts: 977
I know so many guys that resisted therapy because they were either told or, assumed that it meant that the therapist was some kind of secular humanist that would force them to denounce their faith.

Well, if anyone ever comes across that guy, that therapist, I'd say, Run away! Run away!

Recovery isn't a religon and there is no cookbook, and if there was one...where, if you put all the ingredients in, in order and then let it bake for a specified period of time...well, I'd be highly suspect of that, too. And the charmer trying to sell it.

We all come to the table with our own unique experiences and using what we know, as in our faith, whatever that might be and, however we might express it, seems like, is a good thing.

I love the fact that you say, "...he meant it in a way I could understand it."

That is cool...

Thanks for the post...



checkin out for a few weeks... whistle

#261602 - 11/14/08 01:03 PM Re: Jesus is helping me Mature! [Re: ttoon]
Dan99 Offline

Registered: 06/18/07
Posts: 100
Loc: Washington DC
Funny, TTOON, this post reminded me of the opposite phenomenon that happens with 12-step groups. I've known many people who refuse 12-step programs because they say it involves religion.

I tell them that in my almost 15 years of attending meetings, I've never been pressed to believe or commit to anything, other than staying sober and occasionally picking up afterwards.

Just goes to show, you can hide behind religion no matter what your viewpoint if you want to use it to stay in denial.

I'm sure I had many reasons for staying in denial years ago, too. Just can't remember what they were anymore. A sign of age, I guess.

Marinen, I'm glad for you that the Lord is reaching you. What a joyous thing to share.

Work like you don't need the money;
dance like no one is watching;
sing like no one is listening;
love like you've never been hurt;
and live life every day as if it were your last.

#261831 - 11/15/08 09:06 PM Re: Jesus is helping me Mature! [Re: Dan99]
michael banks Offline

Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca

Or a sign of growth.

In AA they told me.
That to be a part of AA all I needed was a desire to quit drinking and that was all.
No dues,fees,creeds and no authority to answer to.
But I met Jesus at an AA meeting, who would have guessed that was possible.(not me)


To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human.
-Robert Johnson-

"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun

WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009

#261854 - 11/15/08 11:12 PM Re: Jesus is helping me Mature! [Re: Marinan]
Healing Times 20 Offline

Registered: 11/15/08
Posts: 2
No, by no means do anyone have the right to harm anyone. GOD is good, and he will reveal himself to you. We live in a world full of people who are devoted to doing evil, but do know, that GOD is still in the blessing business.


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